The big news of the week had to do with Vanya and his prosthetic to be. He didn't get fit on Friday because we have to go to Biotech to do that. He did meet with the rehab medicine doc, orthopedist, PT, prosthetist, and rep from Biotech. Everyone was in agreement that Vanya should be fitted with a basic leg so he can better work on trunk control. We have an appointment the first week in November to get fitted and it all goes pretty fast from there.
Vanya is doing a couple of new things this week. He is now eating sitting upright in his high chair instead of reclined. He is also able to sign "more." He is doing much better with eating non-pureed foods. He is a master of puffs and cheerios. He has also tried some banana and cheese pieces. He is moving the food around in his mouth without gagging. He is trying to pick up the puffs and has even made a few attempts to put something in his mouth, but we still have a ways to go with this. I am on the hunt for foods that will be easy for him to practice self-feeding. Most of the stuff that is easy for him to eat is hard to pick up and vice versa.
Ben has officially mastered riding his bicycle without training wheels. He has also finished book 3 of Harry Potter and convinced Andy to let him move on to book 4. I managed to survive watching his kindergarten class for an hour, just barely. I don't think I will be volunteering for that again anytime soon. Abby is sweet as ever. Poor girl. Before her skinned knees had time to heal, she fell again and now has another set of boo boos. We went to her Open House at preschool this week and got to see what all she has been up to.
And Now We Have Three Kids!
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
The longest 5 miles
That would be the 5 miles between Abby's preschool and our house traveled with a little man who is usually at least 15 minutes past the time he needs to be sleeping. Don't get me wrong. He isn't cranky or crying. He would just like to go to sleep and could easily do so. The problem is that he would awaken 5 minutes later in the garage feeling like he has had all the sleep he needs. Ummmm, no thank you. So, I have to keep him awake for the ride home. We exit the preschool parking lot with a lap full of toys. By the time we get to the interstate, most of those toys have been jettisoned from the carseat and are out of reach. Then the fun starts as I desperately try to find anything that I can lob safely to him from the front seat - magazines, diapers, junk mail, empty plastic bottles. You get the picture. Today's winner was the Costco coupon booklet. He was quite interested in something that is on sale. The ride home from preschool pickup is a little easier because he has the always enertaining big sister Abby to prevent his slumber. She takes her job very seriously and has her own favorite techniques. Her favorite is the "rip up a magazine" trick which usually leaves her little bro belly laughing and my van looking like a confetti factory.
Our big news of the day is that we have an appointment on Friday to get Vanya fitted for his prosthetic. I am so excited for him. I hope he is equally excited when he is getting an impression made of his stump in the middle of naptime.
Tomorrow I am babysitting Ben's kindergarten class while his teacher goes to a planning meeting. Surely, there will be a planned activity or I may not survive.
He doesn't look tired........
My trusty assistant.
Our big news of the day is that we have an appointment on Friday to get Vanya fitted for his prosthetic. I am so excited for him. I hope he is equally excited when he is getting an impression made of his stump in the middle of naptime.
Tomorrow I am babysitting Ben's kindergarten class while his teacher goes to a planning meeting. Surely, there will be a planned activity or I may not survive.
He doesn't look tired........
My trusty assistant.
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
No Patch Tuesday!!
Tuesday is quickly becoming my favorite day of the week. It is the one day my sweet little man does not have to wear his eye patch. I get to look at both of his gorgeous eyes all day long. I also take a lot of pictures.
| Look how tall he is sitting!! Can you hear the giggles? My three sweeties. Oh, and we also have an injury report. Poor Abby. |
Monday, October 17, 2011
A long overdue update
I had been debating whether to start a new blog to document Vanya's progress, but I think we'll just go with this one. Vanya has been home a little over 3 months. During this time, I think we have seen every physician in the Birmingham metro area. Okay, not really, but we have seen a bunch. So, where are we?
Vanya was seen in the UAB International Adoption Clinic. All of his bloodwork, including genetic testing, came back NORMAL. He brought home a few parasite friends who have since been eradicated with flagyl. He had x-rays of his hips, legs, arms, and hands. He was seen by orthopedists both here in Birmingham and at Shriner's in Greenville. Vanya's missing leg and hand anomolies are most likely the result of amniotic banding. Basically, strings broke away from the amniotic sac and he got tangled up. These bands caused his leg and fingers to be amputated while he was inutero. The plan was for Vanya to be fitted with a prosthetic leg when he started pulling up to stand. He was also referred to the local Limb Deficiency Clinic run by Alabama Department of Rehabilitation Services. He was also referred for Early Intervention Services through Hand in Hand.
Vanya had an MRI in August which confirmed part of what we had been told in Ukraine. Vanya does have damage to his brain related to his premature birth, specifically he has mild to lesser moderate periventricular leucomalacia (PVL). The most common sequelae of PVL is cerebral palsy. When Vanya was seen in the Limb Deficiency clinic in September, the rehab medicine doctor felt quite certain that he had right sided spastic hemiplegia. Because of this, he felt Vanya needed more intense PT as well as OT services. He is currently getting PT twice per week and will get OT twice per month.
The other big issue we have is vision. Vanya saw the opthamalogist in August and was diagnosed with optic nerve atrophy and cortical visual impairment. We have been diligently patching his eyes since then and I am please to report that at today's appointment, the doc said he saw some improvement. Yippee!!
In the 3 months since Vanya has been home, he has worked very hard and has made lots of gains. This was a kiddo who could barely hold up his head when we first met him. He now rolls easily front to back and back to front, commando crawls wherever he wants to go, and can prop sit for short periods of time. He is an absolute JOY!!! He wakes with a smile on his face and has the sweetest giggle ever.
I promise to do a better job with updates now that we are sorta caught up.
Vanya was seen in the UAB International Adoption Clinic. All of his bloodwork, including genetic testing, came back NORMAL. He brought home a few parasite friends who have since been eradicated with flagyl. He had x-rays of his hips, legs, arms, and hands. He was seen by orthopedists both here in Birmingham and at Shriner's in Greenville. Vanya's missing leg and hand anomolies are most likely the result of amniotic banding. Basically, strings broke away from the amniotic sac and he got tangled up. These bands caused his leg and fingers to be amputated while he was inutero. The plan was for Vanya to be fitted with a prosthetic leg when he started pulling up to stand. He was also referred to the local Limb Deficiency Clinic run by Alabama Department of Rehabilitation Services. He was also referred for Early Intervention Services through Hand in Hand.
Vanya had an MRI in August which confirmed part of what we had been told in Ukraine. Vanya does have damage to his brain related to his premature birth, specifically he has mild to lesser moderate periventricular leucomalacia (PVL). The most common sequelae of PVL is cerebral palsy. When Vanya was seen in the Limb Deficiency clinic in September, the rehab medicine doctor felt quite certain that he had right sided spastic hemiplegia. Because of this, he felt Vanya needed more intense PT as well as OT services. He is currently getting PT twice per week and will get OT twice per month.
The other big issue we have is vision. Vanya saw the opthamalogist in August and was diagnosed with optic nerve atrophy and cortical visual impairment. We have been diligently patching his eyes since then and I am please to report that at today's appointment, the doc said he saw some improvement. Yippee!!
In the 3 months since Vanya has been home, he has worked very hard and has made lots of gains. This was a kiddo who could barely hold up his head when we first met him. He now rolls easily front to back and back to front, commando crawls wherever he wants to go, and can prop sit for short periods of time. He is an absolute JOY!!! He wakes with a smile on his face and has the sweetest giggle ever.
I promise to do a better job with updates now that we are sorta caught up.
Thursday, August 18, 2011
The Rest of our Ukrainian Journey
Yes, finally. We woke up at 3am Thursday morning to drive to Kiev. Thankfully, Vanya woke up easily and seemed to go with the flow. We had packed everything up the night before, so we just had to get dressed and wait for Nick to arrive. We got everything loaded into Nick's car and we were off. I sat in the backseat with Vanya and the Vanya supplies. I had made him a bottle right before we left and we started off the ride with his bottle and then he drifted off to sleep. Sweet boy slept in my arms. I, of course, was more than a little freaked out by the fact that I was holding a baby in my arms in a car. Heck, I wasn't even wearing a aeat belt. Pretty much the whole ride was me and Vanya dozing and me giving Vanya a bottle when he got hungry. I didn't realize how much of the ride I spent asleep, or at least in a parallel universe, until I asked Andy what time it was and he said it was 8am and I realized that all this traffic was because we were just outside Kiev.
Nick drove us to the US Embassy where we waited for Eugene. By this time Vanya's diaper was about to explode, so he got his diaper changed on the trunk of Nick's car. Vanya didn't seem to mind. When Eugene arrived, we transferred all of our stuff to his car and said our goodbyes to Nick. We were a little sad. Then it was off to our appointment, which really isn't an appointment. We waited at the window for someone to take our papers and then we waited for her to come back and ask us to sign some stuff. While we were waiting, we met several adopting families and their kiddos. Soon, whatever needed to be done with our papers was done and we signed a few papers, paid our fee, and were told to be back the next day at 2pm. Then it was off to the medical clinic.
The medical clinic was an experience. Thankfully, Eugene was with us and he took care of the details. There was no vaccination card in our papers from the orphanage and I had a moment of terror when I thought this might hang us up. Eugene reassured us that whatever we needed could be faxed and a few phone calls were made. Turns out the reason Vanya didn't have a vaccination card was because he hadn't had any vaccinations, not a one. The doctors felt it was "contraindicated." It really only got better. The doctor looks at the handwritten report from the orphanage doctor, then looks at us and tells us that we shouldn't bring this child home when there are so many healthy children we could bring home. She couldn't fathom why we wanted to bring Vanya home. My wonderful husband explains that, like all children, Vanya needs to be loved by a family and we are his family. So, she does her exam. She seems somewhat relieved that she doesn't hear a murmur in his heart and his head is normal size. Then she looks at us and comments somewhat incredulously that we obviously love this boy and that she hopes everything works out. Eugene then takes us to a little dining area to get a drink and give Vanya some food. Our sealed envelope is ready shortly and we are on our way.
Next stop, our new apartment in Kiev. It was small. Just a bedroom and a kitchen. However, it had AC, wireless internet, and was right across the street from a huge market. All was good. Vanya was ready for a well deserved nap so I went to lay him down on the bed. Wait this feels wet. Is it just cold or is it wet? It is definitely wet. Whoever cleaned the apartment put the comforter and sheets on the bed wet. Thankfully, there are more sheets in the closet and we have our trusty fitted sheet. So, Vanya gets a nap and we get to relax a bit and plan what to do next. When Vanya woke up, we walked over to the market to change some money and pick up some drinks and baby food. Then we were off on our tour of Kiev looking for McDonald's. We had no idea where we were. We had a map but couldn't figure put where we were on the map. We wandered around a bit and were about to give up when I heard English. Thanks to some young guys from CA, we found McDonald's. We walked back home and we were going to give Vanya a bath until we determined that there was no hot water. The hot water heater was unplugged. After determining that it would be a while before there was enough hot water to bathe a baby, we decided that Vanya could survive another day without a bath and put him to bed. We joined him not too much later.
The only thing on our agenda the next day was our 2pm interview at the Embassy to pick up Vanya's visa. Since we now knew where McD's was, we walked over there for an early lunch and did some shopping on the way back at one of the underground malls. We were very pleased that we found an embroidered Ukrainian shirt in a size that might actually fit Vanya. Then, is was back to the apartment to wait for our ride to the Embassy. We made it to the Embassy after some confusion over who was driving us there. It only took about 45 minutes to get everything done and we got to talk with the families we had met the day before while waiting. Niko was waiting for us when we got out of the Embassy. On the way back to our apartment, he pointed out a nice steak place with English menus, so we decided to forgo the Micky D's that night and have a real meal. Back at the apartment, we tucked Vanya in for his afternoon beauty rest and Andy wallked over to the market to pick up some more baby food. When Vanya woke up we headed over to dinner. We had a great meal and walked around a bit before heading back to the apartment. We packed up all our stuff and set our alarm clock for 2am since Niko would be there at 3am to pick us up.
At 3am the next morning, it was off to the airport!! We got our bags checked in, went through passport control, and had enough time to do a little bit of airport shopping. Vanya was a bit upset the first few minutes of the flight but quickly settled down and snoozed a bit. We arrived in Frankfurt and, due to miscommunication over where we were supposed to pick up our gate checked stroller, we did not get our stroller back. Andy was told that he might be able to find it at baggage claim. Vanya, as a Ukrainian citizen traveling with a Ukrainian passport, would need a visa to leave the international terminal. So, Andy set out on his own. Two hours later, he reappears without the stroller. No, I am not kidding. During that time, I had managed to snag a luggage cart so that me and Vanya could at least walk around a bit. Andy rejoined us as we were checking in at the United desk and I was confirming that we had bulkhead seats for the transatlantic flight. As we are walking away from the desk, the United employee who originally checked our passports calls us over and thanks us for adopting Vanya. As it turns out, he and Vanya are from the same hometown.
The next flight has a bit of a rocky start. Poor little Vanya is not happy. Not at all. There is a lot of crying and I am not able to do his favorite soothing sway with the fasten seatbelt sign on. We are worried. I am sure all the people around us are worried. Everyone wants to spend 8 hours on a plane next to a crying baby. Don't they? Thankfully, Vanya did settle down and was his usual happy self for the rest of the flight. He ate, he snoozed, and he went for walks with daddy around the plane.
When we landed in Chicago there was much to do. After all, this was when Vanya would officially become a US Citizen. We made our way to passport control. It was hot and there was a huge line. We survived and went on to our next stop - baggage claim. We got our luggage, including our missing stroller, and headed over to the immigration desk where we turned in Vanya's paperwork so they could do whatever needed to be done to make his citizenship official. Then we turned our bags back over to the airline folks and headed to our gate. Vanya was wiped out by this point and fell asleep. A few hours later, we boarded our flight to Birmingham so Vanya could be home at last.
Nick drove us to the US Embassy where we waited for Eugene. By this time Vanya's diaper was about to explode, so he got his diaper changed on the trunk of Nick's car. Vanya didn't seem to mind. When Eugene arrived, we transferred all of our stuff to his car and said our goodbyes to Nick. We were a little sad. Then it was off to our appointment, which really isn't an appointment. We waited at the window for someone to take our papers and then we waited for her to come back and ask us to sign some stuff. While we were waiting, we met several adopting families and their kiddos. Soon, whatever needed to be done with our papers was done and we signed a few papers, paid our fee, and were told to be back the next day at 2pm. Then it was off to the medical clinic.
The medical clinic was an experience. Thankfully, Eugene was with us and he took care of the details. There was no vaccination card in our papers from the orphanage and I had a moment of terror when I thought this might hang us up. Eugene reassured us that whatever we needed could be faxed and a few phone calls were made. Turns out the reason Vanya didn't have a vaccination card was because he hadn't had any vaccinations, not a one. The doctors felt it was "contraindicated." It really only got better. The doctor looks at the handwritten report from the orphanage doctor, then looks at us and tells us that we shouldn't bring this child home when there are so many healthy children we could bring home. She couldn't fathom why we wanted to bring Vanya home. My wonderful husband explains that, like all children, Vanya needs to be loved by a family and we are his family. So, she does her exam. She seems somewhat relieved that she doesn't hear a murmur in his heart and his head is normal size. Then she looks at us and comments somewhat incredulously that we obviously love this boy and that she hopes everything works out. Eugene then takes us to a little dining area to get a drink and give Vanya some food. Our sealed envelope is ready shortly and we are on our way.
Next stop, our new apartment in Kiev. It was small. Just a bedroom and a kitchen. However, it had AC, wireless internet, and was right across the street from a huge market. All was good. Vanya was ready for a well deserved nap so I went to lay him down on the bed. Wait this feels wet. Is it just cold or is it wet? It is definitely wet. Whoever cleaned the apartment put the comforter and sheets on the bed wet. Thankfully, there are more sheets in the closet and we have our trusty fitted sheet. So, Vanya gets a nap and we get to relax a bit and plan what to do next. When Vanya woke up, we walked over to the market to change some money and pick up some drinks and baby food. Then we were off on our tour of Kiev looking for McDonald's. We had no idea where we were. We had a map but couldn't figure put where we were on the map. We wandered around a bit and were about to give up when I heard English. Thanks to some young guys from CA, we found McDonald's. We walked back home and we were going to give Vanya a bath until we determined that there was no hot water. The hot water heater was unplugged. After determining that it would be a while before there was enough hot water to bathe a baby, we decided that Vanya could survive another day without a bath and put him to bed. We joined him not too much later.
The only thing on our agenda the next day was our 2pm interview at the Embassy to pick up Vanya's visa. Since we now knew where McD's was, we walked over there for an early lunch and did some shopping on the way back at one of the underground malls. We were very pleased that we found an embroidered Ukrainian shirt in a size that might actually fit Vanya. Then, is was back to the apartment to wait for our ride to the Embassy. We made it to the Embassy after some confusion over who was driving us there. It only took about 45 minutes to get everything done and we got to talk with the families we had met the day before while waiting. Niko was waiting for us when we got out of the Embassy. On the way back to our apartment, he pointed out a nice steak place with English menus, so we decided to forgo the Micky D's that night and have a real meal. Back at the apartment, we tucked Vanya in for his afternoon beauty rest and Andy wallked over to the market to pick up some more baby food. When Vanya woke up we headed over to dinner. We had a great meal and walked around a bit before heading back to the apartment. We packed up all our stuff and set our alarm clock for 2am since Niko would be there at 3am to pick us up.
At 3am the next morning, it was off to the airport!! We got our bags checked in, went through passport control, and had enough time to do a little bit of airport shopping. Vanya was a bit upset the first few minutes of the flight but quickly settled down and snoozed a bit. We arrived in Frankfurt and, due to miscommunication over where we were supposed to pick up our gate checked stroller, we did not get our stroller back. Andy was told that he might be able to find it at baggage claim. Vanya, as a Ukrainian citizen traveling with a Ukrainian passport, would need a visa to leave the international terminal. So, Andy set out on his own. Two hours later, he reappears without the stroller. No, I am not kidding. During that time, I had managed to snag a luggage cart so that me and Vanya could at least walk around a bit. Andy rejoined us as we were checking in at the United desk and I was confirming that we had bulkhead seats for the transatlantic flight. As we are walking away from the desk, the United employee who originally checked our passports calls us over and thanks us for adopting Vanya. As it turns out, he and Vanya are from the same hometown.
The next flight has a bit of a rocky start. Poor little Vanya is not happy. Not at all. There is a lot of crying and I am not able to do his favorite soothing sway with the fasten seatbelt sign on. We are worried. I am sure all the people around us are worried. Everyone wants to spend 8 hours on a plane next to a crying baby. Don't they? Thankfully, Vanya did settle down and was his usual happy self for the rest of the flight. He ate, he snoozed, and he went for walks with daddy around the plane.
When we landed in Chicago there was much to do. After all, this was when Vanya would officially become a US Citizen. We made our way to passport control. It was hot and there was a huge line. We survived and went on to our next stop - baggage claim. We got our luggage, including our missing stroller, and headed over to the immigration desk where we turned in Vanya's paperwork so they could do whatever needed to be done to make his citizenship official. Then we turned our bags back over to the airline folks and headed to our gate. Vanya was wiped out by this point and fell asleep. A few hours later, we boarded our flight to Birmingham so Vanya could be home at last.
Friday, July 8, 2011
Gotcha Day!!!
Vanya's Gotcha Day was Wednesday, July 6th. We had been told we would pick him up in the afternoon but, as things turned out we picked him up in the morning. We were so confused. We thought we were just going to get him to have passport photos done. When we got there, they took us to our usual visiting room and brought Vanya in. We were perplexed. I tried to call our translator to get her to talk with the orphanage staff about what we were supposed to be doing. However, as luck would have it, I couldn't call out on my cell phone. Turns out that one of the many text messages I had received in Russian was informing me that we were out of minutes on our phone. Eventually, some one comes in and says we are waiting on our lawyer. When Natasha arrives, we find out that we were going to bust him out for good and then go get his passport photos done. I waited at the orphanage with Vanya while Andy and Natasha went to the bank to close out Vanya's account. While they were gone, I took off Vanya's pink footy PJ's and got him dressed in BOY CLOTHES. YAY!! No more pink for my little man. Then he fell asleep. So, in his Gotcha photo, he is asleep. It was raining, so no photos walking out the gate.
Then it was off to get the passport photos. This was quite humorous. Natasha was holding Vanya and we were behind the cameraman trying to get Vanya to look in the right direction. The orphanage gave us a list of what Vanya is used to eating, so we stopped at the baby store and Nick helped Andy pick out the right formula and then we headed home. Vanya was DONE by this point and he wanted his bottle and a nap. So, that's what we did. While Vanya was napping, Andy went out to get our last pizza in Kirovograd.
Then it was off to get the passport photos. This was quite humorous. Natasha was holding Vanya and we were behind the cameraman trying to get Vanya to look in the right direction. The orphanage gave us a list of what Vanya is used to eating, so we stopped at the baby store and Nick helped Andy pick out the right formula and then we headed home. Vanya was DONE by this point and he wanted his bottle and a nap. So, that's what we did. While Vanya was napping, Andy went out to get our last pizza in Kirovograd.
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Introducing......
Ivan Alexander Smith
These pictures are from our visit this morning. We didn't get to see him this afternoon because court was during our normal visiting time. However, we will be busting him out of the orphanage tomorrow afternoon. He plans to pose for plenty of glamour shots sporting clothes that are not pink. It is not easy to see but, yes, he is wearing a pink sleeper :)
The next few days are going to be CRAZY. We will leave for Kiev sometime very early Thursday morning. I have heard times ranging from 3am to 5am and I am in denial. Our appointment at the US Embassy is at 10:30am, so we have to be in Kiev by then. We are hoping to fly out of Kiev on Saturday. We are waiting to hear from our travel agent about flight availability. We will be home soon!! We miss Ben and Abby soooo much.
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